Dating a man with borderline personality
Do you or someone you know exhibit the following characteristics: frequent self-injurious behaviors (SIB), suicidal ideations or suicide attempts, frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment, unstable and intense interpersonal relationships that include alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation, identity disturbance, impulsivity (acting before thinking), chronic feelings of emptiness, and inappropriate and intense emotions that are sometimes disproportional to the trigger?
I’m sure you’ve seen these thrown all over the web.Having this new mentality and skillset will allow you to break the common flow of abuse and toxicity that brings pain to you and the relationship.It’s also important to take some time away from the popular BPD forums and communities that exist.One of the biggest lies ever fed to society is this idea that life should be easy and simple. To make matters worse, my parents always told me that the right girl will eventually come, further deepening my codependent upbringing with this idea that I can sit back, be passive and get a girl.
I had a lot of poor mindsets taught to me from my upbringing.All you have to do is take a quick visit to any community forum and you’ll see associated words such as: And so on and so forth. One of the first things I want to teach you is to You need to keep in mind that your upbringing and life experience is unique to you and you alone.