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13 The carpenter stretcheth out his rule; he marketh it out with a line; he fitteth it with planes, and he marketh it out with the compass, and maketh it after the figure of a man, according to the beauty of a man; that it may remain in the house.14 He heweth him down cedars, and taketh the cypress and the oak, which he strengtheneth for himself among the trees of the forest: he planteth an ash, and the rain doth nourish it.he works at my gym where i see him every other day and we have conversations before or after my workout. Unless its planning dates or me texting the odd hey how are you.I just dont want to seem clingy or desperate and would want him to text me. I havent spoken to him since friday night when we went out and expected to see him at the gym today but i didnt.They’d have the same objections I did: a little too old, not a Harvard grad, blahblahblah. If you’re single, and never find anybody “good enough,” chances are that you do the exact same thing. Because if you’ve been dating this way for 5, 10 or 20 years, there’s something that you’re not seeing.The reason I’m bringing this up is that I made a CHOICE to find an amazing partner and create an amazing life – and all I had to do was give up that IMAGE that I’d had of dating a woman who was Just. And that something is this: If a 42-year-old man says that he’s ONLY attracted to 9’s and 10’s who are in their late 20’s, that’s fabulous.18 They have not known nor understood: for he hath shut their eyes, that they cannot see; and their hearts, that they cannot understand.
One of the things that I’ve often thought is that none of these men would marry someone like my wife, even though my wife is – objectively – just about the coolest woman on the planet.1 Yet now hear, O Jacob my servant; and Israel, whom I have chosen: 2 Thus saith the LORD that made thee, and formed thee from the womb, which will help thee; Fear not, O Jacob, my servant; and thou, Jesurun, whom I have chosen.